I know how you feel about shared fields. I hate them too.
Playing there is a lot closer to being at an away game that being at a home game.
When your field and field house are at your own school like ours is, it’s home. You have your own locker, you have all your personal stuff in it. You have the same chair in the training room. You know where everything is. In our case there is always snacks available as well as liquid refreshments. The kids can come and go as they please, within the coaches guidelines of course.
It’s truly their home away from home, and they don’t share it with anyone.